Thursday, May 27, 2010

能改掉坏习惯吗?能拥有好习惯?

别指望谁能推着你走

如果你不向前走,谁又会推你走呢?因此,积极自动的态度,是实现个人愿望的开始。我们常说:“我不 会……由于遗传……”、“我迟到,由于……”、“我的规划没完成,由于……”我们总是在找借口或是埋怨,在不满中耗费自己的生命。

而人类与动物的差别正是人能自动积极地创造、实现幻想,来晋升我们的生命价值。所以,那些成功的人是会为自己的行动及一生所做的选择与决定负起责任,这一切都是看自己选择使用如何应对外界环境的态度与应对方式,他们努力去实现那些能掌握的事情,而不是被动地忧虑那些没法节制或难以实行的事情


坏习惯 会令一个人懒散与失败,好习惯也会令一个人拥有motivation
你能改掉坏习惯,然后去开始好习惯吗?


切忌
不应后悔自己所做过的决定与事情,
当作为自己错误的决定付上教训或得到经验
做一位负责任的人吧V^__^V


Tuesday, May 25, 2010

The End of Foundation Life---PM03&04 housemate































Last year June I make the courage decision about intake MMU at Melaka
How many people wonder I choose went to unknown place with alone
I didn't arrive Melaka place before and without any friend go there
Include my Temerloh friend,5 Gamma and MMU friend also wonder why...
They throw out many question to me, Why?
I also doesn't know how to reply with satisfied other or myself the answer
I just know this is my DECISION, My choice...
"Everyone must be responsible for their own decision"
After make the decision how much regret I also will try my best and run this path perfectly...












After I start my Foundation life
Start I meet my roommate LeeYi, she is nice girl whose always care me!
I feel hundred thanks to her care in this one year!She really is nice jie jie...^.^
My housemate celine, ai yuk, kai xin jie,ying xian, ah sin, hui kee
I really very enjoy when we shopping together with celine and ai yuk
This is simple and happy day!



















Second people I feel very thanks is Shi Pei
She accompany me the whole of my foundation life
This is very hard and precious friendship!
I feel very happy can meet my PM03 & 04 classmate
They all very like to play and funny
All My classmate friend also are part of my nice memory in foundation!
Thanks of them give me a big & nice birthday celebration and present!
Thanks my friend who go out with me before~thanks~very enjoy go out v u all!
I will no put out any name,bcos really many ppl...
U all are my nice classmate and good friend!

















This Final exam is the most I put many effort inside all the subject
Whatever u think I am kidding, but I use 2 week time just start open the book
All my foundation life have big mistaken and I have bad behavior
I without treasure my study chance, finally I lose my motivation and my path
This 3 sem I no hear any Lecture class and always think play
I start open the book only for before exam last 1 or 2 week
This is crazy action use 3 or 4 day to finish 1 or 2 subject whole book!
I use few day to understand myself, discuss with friend then use it to exam
Most of my foundation friend also do same action with me
Finally they really get the good result...
















This last of Final exam at foundation is most pressure one
I put many effort to my "statistics" subject,
I make sure I understand and can solve pass year question just start exam
Finally I feel sad and crazy...this really damn hard for me let me feel so down
I cannot believe why this sem exam more difficult 100XX then other pass year?
The most crazy action is "Management" subject,
Use 1 day start to read,understand it and memorize it, 2nd day go exam...
Finally the result is...??God bless us all the foundation student success pass all!
Thanks Ah Lun, this is last meet friend at my foundation life
Nice to meet u, thank you for teach me Account and Statistics!
you really really very pro and study hard~
I wish u fast fast success finish study life...^__^


I hope can pass my foundation
success to degree
This stupid behavior....*&(*%%@$%#%^
I just can say I try....
No more stupid action, start fight with my future life!
Bye bye my "Honey year" foundation life!!!~~~



borrow photo from Renee~hehex~
all of your is my friend!















TO MY foundation friend,
u all are my friend forever in my heart
whatever after the future we are different path
whatever we will different course or different class
Bless all the friend who go Cyber,take care!
Wish all my friend have nice future!

Sunday, May 9, 2010

妈妈,对不起...母亲节快乐!哥哥,生日快乐!



我听了电话后忍不住哭了很久
过去十九年的母亲节都是我负责陪在妈妈的身边
今年由于考试,第一次没回家乡帮妈妈庆祝
刚刚妈妈打电话来说别人的孩子很多都送花给妈妈
很多孩子昨天就帮妈妈庆祝母亲节了
从语气中能感觉到她多么羡慕别人家的妈妈
今天爸爸又去了金马伦,妈妈在这特别的日子一个人孤单在家感到寂寞吧?
哥哥姐姐各有所忙,很少回家...
小学中学只有我每天从学校回来,告诉她学校发生什么事
只为了让她听听解解闷
而现在我来到大学了,不能像以前每天回家陪她聊天
最内疚惭愧莫过于在您的节日,
没有一个孩子陪在你左右,
也让你一个人在家发闷!
妈妈,真的很对不起...
我,姐,哥都随着长大
时间令我们越来越无奈不能回家陪爸爸妈妈
对不起爸爸妈妈,你们一年一次的生日还有节日
你们不需要我们的礼物,只不过想要我们和你们吃个晚餐而已
对不起,你们那么简单的渴望也做不到
妈,母亲节快乐!



我比以前更珍惜呆在家时间
我很享受与我家人的每一分每一秒
我非常清楚我的年龄越长大,在家与家人相处的时间就越少
我终于明白了有时姐姐哥哥回来不告诉别人的原因
有时不能说为何回来不告诉别人,而代表着我不珍惜你们这些老朋友
不是说我有了马六甲的新朋友而忘记了你们这些老朋友
因为时间不允许我接触每一个朋友
我有时回来朋友问到我才考虑出,不然我很少主动叫你们出来喝茶
如果我每个好朋友都要叫他们出来喝茶,我回来的24个小时根本不够用
请体谅我很少回家的心情,不是说不当你们朋友了
是因为我离我的家实在是太远了,
我千辛万苦搭4个小时巴士回来那么累只不过要见见我家人,然后再4个小时回去上课
我一得空就找机会回家,又被别人讲为何你那么得空时常回家,不用读书的噢...
我是因为幸运排课都是到拜四,我才找到机会各两,三个星期回一次
那样都有错咩?这叫时常回家?




有的人可以回家不回,宁愿每天出去拍拖,跟朋友出去玩,这才叫做不孝顺!
这个sem我都很多assignment,一或两个月才回家一次
你们又怎么说?
有时忙到带很多功课回去做,特地坐在客厅给家人看多我几眼而已
忙到我出去和朋友吃饭的时间也没有,因为家人只不过需要我和他们吃晚餐
无论是你或我,家人与朋友,我当然选择家人啦
有时我不能像平时搭了几个小时后巴士再累都坚持抽空晚餐吃两餐,
只为了争取多点和家人家乡朋友接触的时间
如果是真心朋友是会体谅我的
他们想念我会主动问我几时有回temerloh
他们想念我每当我回去会主动叫我出来的
而不是怪我不当他们是朋友了,不再约他们一起出来
我就是因为不想失去你们,所以我回家都要几头忙




很好,我的朋友们...
我 22May会正式回家两个星期
在那一段时间无论是久没联络我的朋友或好朋友
只要当我是好朋友的,你们叫我出去,我会尽量陪你们
因为我和你们都是从小到大一起的朋友
我不是真心忽略你们的
但如果之前我已经答应家人了,我只能讲首选是家人



还有,今天是亲爱的哥哥生日~
哥,生日快乐~
我永远爱你!
我希望我们将来无论多老了,3个兄姐妹永远那么和蔼可亲
我不希望我们会像别人一样,有各自家人了而把自己的亲兄弟当外人看
绝不可以发生!


Tuesday, May 4, 2010

然后...我只不过如此?


五月了...
再过一个月我就结束我的foundation
即将与我渡过一年时间
可爱的同学们
说再见了!
再多的不舍得,人还是会成长的
各自都需要搭着自己不同的步伐
迈向属于自己不知明的未来



结束之前...有无数个考试等着我
加油,那只不过是我人生中的小考验!
有那个能耐吗?
然道我只不过那样....如此而已?








Sunday, May 2, 2010

现实

其实人长大了就该面对『现实』的世界,面对所有的是非,欺骗,批评,虚伪,决定,别人对你的态度,别人对你的期望。长大了很在乎别人对你的看法,做每件事希望得到别人认同,害怕出口伤人,害怕让人讨厌;做事之前要看别人,讲话不能不带脑,不能好像小时候喜欢讲什么就什么。必须承担一切后果,你毫无选择之下要接受别人对你的期望,批评。琳超级不明白为何不能用最『简单』的思想或做法去解决,为何要选择『复杂』去面对?太『单纯』或太『虚伪』都会有人讲!很多人拥有坏习惯-认为欺骗可以解决问题!现实让我很痛苦很有压力,害怕学习了这些『现实的坏习惯』,我很想回到当初最单纯的地方逃避所有事情,但这就是每个人『成长』的必经之路,我只能『选择』笑着面对!^___^